Negative self-image can be a pervasive and damaging force in our lives. It can hold us back from pursuing our goals and dreams, and it can cause us to doubt ourselves and our abilities. But it’s important to remember that it’s never too late to unlearning negative self-image and to start building a positive and healthy relationship with ourselves.

One of the first steps in unlearning negative self-image is to recognize that our thoughts and beliefs about ourselves are not necessarily accurate or true. We all have a tendency to hold ourselves to unrealistic standards and to compare ourselves to others, but this can be damaging to our self-esteem and self-worth. Instead, we should try to be more accepting of ourselves and to focus on our own unique strengths and qualities.

Another helpful step in unlearning negative self-image is to practice self-compassion. This means being kind and understanding towards ourselves when we make mistakes or when things don’t go as planned. Instead of berating ourselves or feeling guilty, we can try to show ourselves the same kindness and compassion that we would show to a friend.

It can also be helpful to surround ourselves with supportive and positive people who can help us build our confidence and self-esteem. We can also seek the support of a therapist or coach who can help us work through negative self-image and develop healthier coping strategies.

Finally, it’s important to remember that unlearning negative self-image is a journey and it may not happen overnight. It’s okay to take small steps and to be patient with ourselves as we work towards a healthier and more positive relationship with ourselves. With time and effort, we can all learn to love and accept ourselves just as we are.

During a session with me, you can expect to hear a lot of prompts and direction from me as I work to create long, lean, and elegant poses. This may involve arching the back, lifting the chest, separating the legs, or tilting the head and chin towards the sky. While these prompts may seem like a lot to keep track of, my ultimate goal is to help you look and feel your best in front of the camera.

I also often use closed eyes and intimate, emotional expressions to create a sense of vulnerability and vulnerability in my images. This helps to show another side of yourself that you may not normally see in the mirror or in your everyday life.

It’s important to remember that posing for photographs can feel awkward or uncomfortable at times, but my job is to guide and support you through the process. Think of it as a form of “boudoir yoga” – it may be a bit of a workout, but the end result will be worth it! Be sure to drink plenty of water and stretch before your session to help you feel your best, and trust in my expertise as a photographer.